inappropriateness

Fairly obviously, this is an ordinary, everyday, mundane word that anyone can look up in a dictionary - for instance, here. I have, however, a particular example or two of matters that are inappropriate that I wish to particularly illustrate.

The first, is inappropriate responses to agape type love. This is something I've written about here.

The next, which is more important, in my view is that of behaving as if everyone was already spiritually evolved, or acting as if the world was as peaceful as it should be, or as if everyone was able to operate effectively from the basis of the truth that, at a much higher level of reality, we are all one. To me, this, which I've written about here and here, is a little like a child at primary school quibbling about using cuisenaire, on the grounds that ultimately, a dozen or so years later, the child will have to work with calculators and advanced mathematical skills such as calculus, and Fourier and Laplace Transformations.

In the second link I gave in the previous paragraph, I write about the struggles to develop some universality of love/goodwill (or at least a genuine neutrality), which may be exacerbated by:

• inappropriate/wrong views on the Universe / Deity/the nature of our interconnectedness / the "basic reasons" (aka “rewards”) for attempting to achieve this; 
• inappropriate/wrong views regarding situations where other people are “not nice”; and 
• a fear that such a more universal love may lessen one’s earlier loves - e.g., of family, friends, etc.

I've written about this concept elsewhere as well:

• Post No. 546 - where I write about the saying "don't throw the baby out with the bathwater"
• Post No. 479 - where I about inappropriate advice - which is often based on a superficial or shallow assessment of situation or matter
• Post No. 465 - which includes a comment about inappropriate expectations of others
• Post No. 402 - inappropriate responses to a child who has been bullied; on that, note also Post No. 330
• Post No. 392 - inappropriate emphasis 
• Post No. 307 - contains a few references
• Post No. 196 - inappropriate survival mechanisms
• Post No. 178 - inappropriate fear
• Post No. 058 - inappropriate responses of people being healed 
• Post No. 040 - inappropriate energies 
• Post No. 028 - scientific methods can be inappropriate 
• Post No. 025 - inappropriate tolerance of nonBPLF behaviour 
• Post No. 024 - them and us - inappropriate conditioning 
• Post No. 020 secret science of hugs - inappropriate energies/flows